Should we feed the homeless?
I
was just asked a question by a friend. He said: "I was told that
feeding the homeless is enabling them and that it is better to direct
them to programs like the Salvation Army. What do you think about that?"
Hmm. What DO I think about that? I ask myself often if what I seek to
do with the homeless is actually enabling their lifestyle. I ask myself
if my efforts are in vain and they will continue just the way they are
no matter what I do or say. But then I look at Jesus. When Jesus fed the
5,000, He didn't say: "Stupid people! Why didn't they think to bring
food? We need to teach them to plan better!" No. He fed them. He fed
them and continued to teach them because the important thing was not
that they had good life skills. It was that they knew Him, that they
were enabled to hear what He had to say to them, whether they planned
poorly or not.
In my two and a half years working with the homeless,
I have met all types of people: addicts, mentally ill, people caught in
the perpetual cycle of poverty. Many, many, many of these people would
never check in to the Salvation Army or the Mission. Some had families
they wouldn't want to leave behind. Some were too addicted to their
substance of choice to detox before entering a program. Some were too
much of a wanderer to be "trapped" in one place for a year or more. Some
had pets that were like family to them and they would have had to give
up those pets to enter the program. Some were so deep into their mental
illness that there is no way they would be able to make a positive
choice for their future without a great deal of help. They would not
walk into a place like the Salvation Army or the Mission with a desire
to get their lives together! Some of them were not even able to tell
reality from fiction, but they knew they were hungry. And they knew they
were cold. And they recognized when people loved them as individuals.
When I was still at Church in the Park, I met a young woman I will call
May. May was probably in her early twenties. She came nearly every week
and sat near the back, usually alone. One day, as I was walking around
handing out name tags, I greeted her by name and then asked her if I
could give her a hug. The look on her face was priceless and I have
never forgotten it. I will bet that to her, that hug meant more than any
of the food or clothes she got that day.
When someone doesn't
believe they are worth anything, why would they bother to check
themselves into a program? If they have no hope for the future, whether
because they were taught to believe they are worthless, or life is
meaningless, or because they have a mental illness that robs them of any
joy they might otherwise have felt, they will not take the steps to
better their future.
I went to Beard Brook Park and now I go to
West Side Park, not because people need food, but because people need
LOVE. They need to know the Source of that love. I don't hand out water
because a bottle of ice water will change their lives. I hand out water
because it will show them that I love them and in turn they will begin
to wonder why I love them and through me, they will see Him. My goal is
not to put their lives back on track. My goal is to lead them to the One
who can put their hearts back together. That is why I go, and feed and
clothe and love.
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